by AsianPsychoCripple Sun Jul 14, 2013 10:52 pm
I don't mean to be stubborn and I really am trying to take on board everything you say but I guess if I'm really going to have to challenge the Munchausen's thought then I have to tell you everything I feel about it so sorry about that!
You see the thing is you get access to services based on how you present to them in the first place so they're making decisions to treat me based on information I give them which could be flawed?
I'm finding it really difficult to accept that I could be ill at all so it's really hard to even take the meds on the off chance that I could be ill. If I had only had the conversation with mothership once about Munchausens that would be different but she has said it twice now, in quite a detailed and hurtful manner, for example "that she knows everything about me and how I must enjoy getting prodded by doctors" A Munchausens accusation is so horrid that I feel the only reason she could make it twice is if there is some truth in it. Also I recently found out that years ago when my support worker discussed my SH with my mother she said it had begun "when I'd read about it in a book" Also during the times when I've vanished only later to be found by the police mothership makes a point of telling them something along the lines of me being on a support site and apperently the police nod in sympathy and say that I need to get off that site. However I only have mum's word for this and haven't heard any such conversations myself.
Anyway I'm really sorry to offload all that crap onto you Lana, (and other readers!) but I just wanted to illustrate that the whole Munchausens issue is not an isolated incident but rather has been chronically used as a description of me and my "issues" I'm not entirely sure why. I know that I've also got a really happy, optimistic side to my nature which seems to exist alongside my woe and perhaps the people who know me can't get their heads around why someone who seems so happy all the time can also be so sad all the time. Or perhaps I just have Munchausens.
Wow I've really got us of track here, many apologies! I clearly had a lot of things to say
I guess my issue is I will find it really difficult to actually take the meds unless I clear up the Munchausens confusion in my head. I'd dearly love to say to you that I could take the pills in the meantime while this is resolved but knowing myself I don't think that would be realistic. I've tried to take the legit, appropriate medication (probably based on the eminently sensible suggestions of people like yourselves!) but then I just stare at the meds for ages or just hide the meds in bags so I don't have to look at them or think about them! Perhaps I could ask for a Munchausens assessment?
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